This was delivered in the chapel at Love Wins Ministries on June 10th, 2012. The reading was from the Gospel of Mark, Chapter 3 verses 20-35

Today’s reading is from Mark – and Mark is always a little weird, because with Mark, you get two stories for one. Scholars joke about Mark’s sandwhiches, where je puts a story in the middle of a story.

Like the reading today, where he is telling a story about family, and he puts this story about the pharisees in the middle of it. And it is easy to get so distracted by the middle story about the devil and unforgivable sins and what not that we ignore what Jesus was saying about family.

Jesus is busy. The Disciples have just been picked, and Jesus is healing sick folk and casting out demons and generally causing a ruckus. His days are filled with momma’s bringing their sick babies, hoping for a miracle. With lepers, hoping against hope that they can be made clean. Jesus is busy.

Word had gotten back to his family, and they came to get him out of there. They are woried Jesus has lost his mind.

And here is Jesus – surrounded by sick folk that need healing, by people who feel like God is ignoring them, by people who are on the outside of society, by folks who have been left behind in every way possible – and Jesus sends word back that he is ok, because he is surrounded by his family.

This probably did nothing to make his birth family feel better.

Last week, I celebrated my 40th birthday, and a lot of folks threw me a party.

And this party was filled with all sorts of folks – there were white and black and brown folks, gay and straight and trans folks, rich and poor and middlin folks. All sort of folks, from all sorts of backgrounds.

And I was feeling a bit down, not being around my family that day, and I look around and I see the huge spread of all different sort of people around me, and I thought, “These are my people. This is family”.

I once heard someone say that in this world, you get two families – the one you are born into, and the one you choose.

Jesus was talking to the family he was born into, and telling them about the one he chose.

Here is the truest thing I know – that following the Jesus path will bring you in contact with all sorts of people. And when we meet new people, we can react in one of two ways: we can say “This person is different than I am, and so they must be suspect”.

Or, we can say “This person is different than I am, but I know that they are made in the very image of God, like I am, and so we have something in common.”

Or, to put it another way, when you meet that stranger, you realize that you’re kin.

And when you start seeing other folks not as strangers, but as kin, well, the whole world changes. It just does.

The text was 1 John 3:16-24

We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person?

Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. Our actions will show that we belong to the truth, so we will be confident when we stand before God. Even if we feel guilty, God is greater than our feelings, and he knows everything.

Dear friends, if we don’t feel guilty, we can come to God with bold confidence. And we will receive from him whatever we ask because we obey him and do the things that please him.

And this is his commandment: We must believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and love one another, just as he commanded us. Those who obey God’s commandments remain in fellowship with him, and he with them. And we know he lives in us because the Spirit he gave us lives in us.

If someone has enough money to live well, and sees his brother or sister in need and does nothing, how can the love of God be in that person?

That is the question, isn’t it?

How can the biggest church downtown spend 2 milion dollars on a pipe organ while people sleep on their doorsteps?

How can we throw away 40% of all the food we buy, while 17 million children go to bed hungry every night?

How can any of that happen?

I heard a great story once about a jew who was in Auschwitz – the German concentration camp. He survived the experieance, but just barely. He knew many, many people who died there, including his wife and children.

After the war, he would travel around and talk to groups about the horrors of Auscwhitz – making sure that the world would know how bad it had been, to help prevent such a thing from ever happening again.

One day, after he gave his speech, a man came up to him and said ‘I don’t understand how God could have allowed such a thing to happen.”

The Jewish man said, “I don’t understand how you could have allowed it to happen.”

It is easy for us to look at people in need and to think “I hope things get better for them.” Maybe we prayed for them. Maybe we just moved a little faster, hoping to get past them and get on about our lives.

It does no good for us to look at the hungry, at the homeless, at the poor, at the hurting and say “I wonder why God doesn’t do something about that.’ Because, if we do, we are liable to hear God ask back, “I was wondering why you didn’t do anything yourself.”

If we have enough, and we don’t help someone who is in need, how can the love of God be in us?

I don’t think it can.

The Scripture text was Matthew 22:34-46

The religious leaders are trying to trap Jesus.

“What is the greatest commandment,” they ask.

Now, this sounds harmless. But, it is really a doctrinal test. A test to see if Jesus agrees with them or not, a test to see if Jesus belongs in their religious club or not.

Religious people like their tests, to see if you are in their group or not. Are you in, or are you out?

See, the rabbi’s had found 618 commandments in what we call the first five books of the Bible – Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy – but they called the Law. They even broke them down into positive commandments and negative commandments. So, honor your parents was a positive command and do not commit murder was a negative command. They had it all figured out.

Some of the religious people of that day said all the commands were equal. Others said that the negative commands were the most important while others said the positive commands were what you really had to focus on. So, they are testing Jesus to see where he falls in this argument.

Jesus does something interesting here, though. He answers the question, but not in the way that they asked it.

See, they asked for the greatest commandment – what is the most important thing to do. But Jesus instead replies “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”

See, the one thing pretty much all Jews agreed on was there one command above all the others. We find it in the book of Deuteronomy: “Listen, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. It was often the first verse they would memorize as children, and the one verse everyone knew. it was a lot like John 3:16 is for us today. If you were Jewish, you knew this verse.

But Jesus messes with their head here. He says that there is not one greatest commandment – he says that there are two equally great commandments – to love God and to love your neighbor. Loving God is good, Jesus says, but it is equally important to love your neighbor. In fact, they are not just equally important: They are equal – to love your neighbor is to love God. In fact, it is how we love God.

My friend Bart Campolo sums up this passage as “Love God. Love people. Nothing else matters.”

Some 2000 years later, not much has changed. We still have tests to see who is in and who is out. Sometimes, we stake out claims about God. We say “In order to serve God, I have to exclude this person”. We say “In order to follow Jesus, we have to offend or hurt this person.” But Jesus says that when we do that – when we say this person is outside of love, that this person or that person is not worthy of our love – when we do that, we are not loving our neighbor, and thus we are not loving God.

And for the many times that we do that, may God have mercy on us all.

In the name of the Father, and the Son and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

The Scripture text was Exodus 33:12-23

The Scripture text was Matthew 22:1-14

I have to admit – I have some big problems with today’s parable.

I think it is partly because I love so much a similar story that Luke tells in his Gospel.

Here is Luke has to say:

Jesus replied with this story: “A man prepared a great feast and sent out many invitations.  When the banquet was ready, he sent his servant to tell the guests, ‘Come, the banquet is ready.’  But they all began making excuses. One said, ‘I have just bought a field and must inspect it. Please excuse me.’  Another said, ‘I have just bought five pairs of oxen, and I want to try them out. Please excuse me.’ Another said, ‘I now have a wife, so I can’t come.’

“The servant returned and told his master what they had said. His master was furious and said, ‘Go quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and invite the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’ After the servant had done this, he reported, ‘There is still room for more.’ So his master said, ‘Go out into the country lanes and behind the hedges and urge anyone you find to come, so that the house will be full.  For none of those I first invited will get even the smallest taste of my banquet.’”

I love this story. And this is a story that tells us what God is like, because God is like the man who welcomes everyone at the table, with no one turned away.

But this is not the text we are looking at today.

Instead, this text is not about a man, but a king. And to be honest – this is not a very good king.

This king tries to force people to come to his banquet. And when some of them kill his messengers, he not only kills the ones who did it, he burns down their entire town. Then when he invites the common people, the good and the bad, and when he comes to the feast, he sees one guy dressed wrong, and has him tied up and cast into “outer darkness”, whatever that means. It does not sound good, regardless.

The crazy thing to me is that the king in this story is almost always interpreted as God. I guess I get where they are coming from, but I just can’t see God that way.

In the 11^th chapter of the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus tells us that the Kingdom of heaven suffers violence at the hands of the violent. But the king in this story does not suffer violence – he dishes it out. The quiet guest – the one who wears the wrong clothes, the one who does not belong – this is the one who suffers violence. He is accused; he does not respond to the accusations and is then punished and killed at the hands of a violent government.

Sounds a lot like Jesus to me.

And it sounds like what seems to me to be the normal experience of those who reject power and violence. The Kingdom of God experiences violence at the hands of the violent.

So maybe it is just me, but the way I understand Jesus says that I have to be on the side of the one who is rejected for not fitting in, instead of being on the side of the King that uses violence to get his way.

In the name of the Father, and The Son, and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

This homily  was given on World Communion Sunday.

A friend told me one time that you don’t get to pick your family.

Sadly, this is true. I love my family, but if I could have picked a different family – one with better metabolism, say, or one that was genetically pre-disposed to living to 110 years old or maybe even one that was filthy stinking rich – that might have been better for me.

But you don’t get to pick your family.

A lot of us have family members we wish we could gloss over.  Like that cousin who creeps you out, or the Dad who is just a jerk to you, or the sister who tells you at every available opportunity that Obama is the anti-christ and you are destined for hell because you don’t attend her church.

As we say in the South, “Bless her heart. “

A lot of us in this room have felt what it is like to not be able to get along with your whole family.

And it hurts more to disagree with your family than it does someone outside the family. So what some guy you never met thinks your ideas are silly. So what?

But when your Mother says your ideas are silly, well, that hurts. And it can make us angry, and bitter, and before long, we don’t want to talk to them, or even be around them.

In the universal church, today is World Communion Sunday. It is the day when, all over the world, churches remember that we are not alone – that we are all members of the same family, scattered around the world, with differing views on various things, but still, family.

You know that crazy uncle you have that, every time he speaks, you shake your head and just wish he would be quiet? In the Christian family, we have one of those. In fact, I think we have a lot of those.

That abusive cousin who never says anything good and just pisses off everyone who he talks to? We have lots of those, too.

And we have our criminals, and those who ought to be criminals and the child abusers and the prosperity pimps and the people who spiritually abuse people.

And they are all family, and we don’t get to pick our family.

The early church liked this idea of family to describe the connection of all the believers. It is out of that new understanding that they came to call each other “Brother” or “Sister”.

I went to Nashville last weekend, and was only three hours or so away from where my parents live, so they came up since it has been a year or so since I have seen them.  And, of course, we sat down and ate together. Because that is what families do – They eat together.

Today, on World Communion Sunday, we have the opportunity to remember that every week when we gather and we eat the bread and drink from the cup, we are in fact sharing a meal with all those who have come before us and with all the church, scattered all around the world.

We don’t just share the meal with those in this room, but with the Christians hiding in basements in hostile countries and the Christians in the big steeples Downtown and the Christians in mud floored shacks in central America.

Our giant family is dysfunctional, but it is family, none the less. And today is the day we remember them and pray for them and they pray for us. And then they pass us the bread.

In The Name of The Father. And The Son. And The Holy Spirit. Amen.

The Scripture text was Matthew 20:1-16

Things have changed a lot since Jesus told this story. I mean, there are the obvious things, like cars and phones and the internet, but there are more subtle things too.

The biggest one is that most of the people who followed Jesus back then were the ones on the wrong side of the tracks. He spoke to the poor, the frustrated, the beaten down.

Today, those people still follow Jesus, but most people who claim to be Christian in this country are pretty comfortable. I mean, all you have to do is look at the big steeples and the elegant stained glass of most churches to know that not many of the people who gather there are poor.

The message originally spoken to the poor has been taken by the rich – and as a result, it is easy to miss what Jesus was trying to say. The scripture today is one of those stories – it means something a bit different, depending on who you identify with, with the assumptions you bring to the table.

As an educated white guy, it is pretty easy to identify with the land owner. I like to think I am kind, like the landowner in this story. And in the way we usually understand this story, the landowner represents God, and we all like to think of God as basically like us, only nicer.

But the story reads pretty different if you are reading it from the perspective of the first Jesus followers – people who were poor, people who were struggling to get by, people who worked day labor.

Yeah , that’s right– this is the story of the labor pool. This is a story about people who sit and wait for rich men to come and hire them, to do back breaking work at a rate that will barely pay their bills.

And so the farmer goes to the labor pool four times – first thing in the morning, at lunch, at three and again an hour before quitting time.

But when it came time to settle up, he paid them in reverse order – he paid the ones who worked one hour, and then the ones who worked three hours, and so on.  But, and here is the kicker – he paid them all the same.

The people who had been there since early that morning, who signed in at the desk, who sat in the diert room, who waited for their name to be called and who went out at 6 that morning – they got paid the same thing that the ones who had only been out there an hour did.

And the people who went out early – they were hot about it.

Even though they did not suffer at all. They got paid exactly what they were supposed to get paid. And yet they were mad.

The people who worked all day got what they deserved. The people who worked one hour, yet got a whole day’s pay,  they got grace.

Last week, we talked about how there are two ways to view the world – the way of grace, or the way of power. Jesus invites us to live in a world of Grace, and here we see another example of what that looks like. The Farmer extends grace – rather than give people what they deserve, he gives them what they need.

The folks who worked all day – they have a chance to be graceful – I mean, they worked all day for the pay that they had agreed to, and the farmer’s generosity cost them nothing. But instead, they felt cheated. They appealed to power instead of embracing grace.

Yes, when we read this story, it does tell us that god is gracious. But it also tells us that we have a choice to decide which world we want to live in. And to follow Jesus means to choose grace.

In the name of the Father, and The son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

The Scripture text was Matthew 16:13-20

On the small has-been farm I grew up on, we had lots of gates.

There was the gate that kept the goats in their pen. There was the gate that kept the hogs in their pen. There was the gate at the bottom of the driveway that kept the stranger out when we were away. In shop class, I learned how to make a gate that will never, ever sag or drag the ground.

I know a little bit about gates.

So, in the passage we read today, when Jesus says “ I will build my church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it”, I noticed that.

To prevail means to be effective or to be victorious. How is a gate victorious? How is it effective? How does a gate prevail?

Gates have two functions: To keep people or things inside. And to keep people or things outside.

Gates are effective when they keep things in or out.

So, when Jesus says that He will build his church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it, he has to mean that the gates of hell cannot keep the church out.

According to Jesus, the church belongs in hell.

Hell is where we find the drug addicted. Hell is where the single mother struggling to pay the bills lives. Hell is where the alcoholic sleeps, hell is where the pimped out and the pimps both live. Hell is where we find both victims of abuse and abusers.

We want the church to be a place where we meet and hang out with our friends, but Jesus pictured the church as an expeditionary force, bursting down the gates of hell itself and bringing liberation to those who are imprisoned there.

Jesus is calling his church to wade into hell itself to bust out the homeless, the hungry, the adulterer, the pornographer. To drag them out of the depths of hell, after we tear down those gates.

Hunger, homelessness, addiction – all that is one kind of hell. But there are other hells.

There is the hell of being told your sexuality or your gender somehow makes you less than acceptable to God. There’s the hell of being made to feel less than human because your skin is darker than everyone else’s, or because you were born in another country.

And there is the hell of being poor and losing your job and being told it’s the fault of the immigrant, who, in reality, you have much more in common with than you do the rich man who laid you off.

Whatever hell people find themselves in, the gates that keep them there are to be torn down by the church. We are most like the church Jesus had in mind when we proclaim to the captives that the hell they live in is not part of the plan – that there is another way to live, and we find it when we work together to bring about the Justice of God.

The justice of God is a personal justice. It involves sacrificial love. It means dying to ourselves, our ambitions, our preconceived notions of how things work. The way of Jesus invites us to be the means by which God’s justice comes into being. It invites us to go to Hell, for the sake of those imprisoned there.

Today, my brothers and sisters, my most fervent prayer for the church is simply this: I pray I will see you in hell. They need us there.

In the name of the Father, and The Son, and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

The Scripture text was Matthew 16:21-28

We are most influenced by who we model ourselves after.

I learned how to deal with people by watching my Dad deal with people. I learned how to read Literature by modeling after my teachers. I learned how to cook by watching the old ladies that raised me.

A big part of the Christian story is that we are to model ourselves after the example of Jesus.

In today’s passage, we see Jesus describing what the future will be like. Jesus has seen the writing on the wall. The powers that be were after him. The questions, the accusations, the stares. Every time he stops to rest, someone wants to quiz him, to ask him questions, to try to put him in a box.

He knows what is going on. He sees that this cannot go on forever, and if it comes down to it, he knows what the outcome will be.

So now, Jesus is trying to tell his disciples what the story is. How powers will collide, and how it might look like the Kingdom of the world is winning, and to not be afraid. In the days and weeks ahead, it will be important that the disciples not forget the vision he has given them of how the world works – of what it means to live in the Kingdom of God. What it means to imitate him, and by extension, God.

Peter is appalled.  How can this be? What, are you kidding? You will be king! This cannot happen! God forbid it!

See, Peter had a vision of how the world worked too. Peter knew that when it comes down to powers colliding, the side with the most swords, wins. So, this Jesus who he had followed and sacrificed for and given up everything for – this Jesus is talking about being arrested by the powers that be – and of being killed by those same powers. It sounds like Jesus is giving up!

Jesus tells us that if we have seen him, we have seen God – in other words, Jesus imitates God, and how God acts.

Peter is imitating someone here, too. Peter is imitating the world that surrounds them. Peter is suggesting that Jesus’ way is wrong. And Peter doesn’t just think this – he tries to convince Jesus of this. Instead of imitating Jesus, Peter wants Jesus to imitate him.

The way of Peter is attractive – after all, who wants to seek out a way of life that will mean suffering and trial? By choosing to imitate Peter, Jesus could have avoided the cross. Jesus could have lived to a ripe old age, had kids, been somebody.

And it is because the way of Peter is attractive that Jesus calls Peter a stumbling block. In fact, Jesus calls Peter evil personified. He tells Peter that he is focused on earthly things, not heavenly things.

In the Way of Jesus, sometimes, things seem upside down. Jesus told us that the way to be first was to be last. That the way to gain our lives was to lose it. That to get the best seat at the table, pick the worst one.

And that victory comes by death at the hands of the powers that be.

Ultimately, it seems to me that life offers us a choice of two visions of how the world works. Imitate Jesus, or imitate Peter.

I hope that we will choose wisely.

In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.